Showing posts with label Nursing. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Nursing. Show all posts

Thursday, August 19, 2010

Nursing in a wrap


Nana knows best when it comes to all things baby.  Her choice of carrier is no exception.  A Moby wrap, or mama-made wrap (like the one Nana made me), is incredible! First of all, it is beautiful! 

But, more importantly, this carrier wraps your little one to you in such a sweet way.  It's perfect for those first few outings, where the world may seem too harsh and bright and just plain germ-filled for your newborn babe.  You can safely and comfortably bring your baby in toe wherever you go. She stays snuggled up tight to you.  Onlookers can admire from afar - strangers may inexplicably feel comfortable touching your baby in a car-seat carrier, but I can almost guarantee they won't feel as comfortable doing so when you little one is wrapped tightly next to you!

I wear my sweetie around the house quite often.  The allows me two hands to do things with and lets me carry my baby with me wherever I go.

Mamas everywhere who have fallen in love with wraps like this have probably seen pictures of other amazing mamas doing something akin to mama acrobatics with their little one: 

Yes, my friends, you can nurse in a wrap.  It just takes some practice.

It is well worth the time and effort.  Especially when your baby is, oh, say five months old, and is learning to move the nursing cover off of her head or just likes to take a break, look around, and say hi to everyone!

Some tips that worked for me and my little one:

1.  I nurse my sweetie by first wrapping the carrier (or by taking her out of the carrier). (see above)
2.  Then, I take off the shoulder strap on the opposite side that I am going to feed her on.  (I practiced A LOT sitting down first!) You can also nurse with both straps on, but I have a baby who does not like to nurse while being held tightly, so the double strap nursing doesn't work for us (usually).



3. Then, I unhook my nursing bra/shirt or otherwise prepare the area for eating. :)

4.  Next, I hold my baby in a cradle hold for breastfeeding, and take the strap that is still on my shoulder and place her little feet, bum, and back (in that order) through it.



5.  I then spread out the fabric so it covers her bum and back and let her start nursing.




Some adjusting may be necessary, but you should be good to go.  At this point, sometimes I put my other strap back on and bring the fabric across her bum for extra support.




All covered up and modest from all angles...






Feel free to get up and walk around.  You baby can nurse and you can keep shopping doing chores. Hope this helps! If you're still having trouble, feel free to leave a comment and I'll do my best to offer suggestions!

Monday, August 2, 2010

Nursing Know-How

"Are you sure she's latched on correctly?"

I must have asked this 1,000 times in the hospital. I asked my mom, I asked the nurses, I asked my husband, the lactation consultant, the person who came in to change the toilet paper in our room... you get the picture. I asked EVERYONE.

It is easy to fall into the trap of thinking that since breastfeeding is natural, it is also easy.  We think it is a reflex rather than a learned skill. We should automatically know how to nurse our baby. And if we don't, we failed at our first task of motherhood. 

That thinking is dangerous. Just like most new things, we need a teacher. That's where Nana comes in.

I was so lucky to have a good support team around me that helped me get that perfect latch. My mom was the best of all though. She breastfed all five of her babies and gave me invaluable support and advice. 

"Try supporting her head in the crook of your arm." 

"Make sure you drink enough water."

"Do you need a snack?"

The answer to that last one is always, "Yes."

After I had mastered the latch, we moved on to different questions. Things like, "Could the spicy Thai curry I had for dinner last night be making her fussy?" (Yes!)  Mom was always willing to share her experiences or, in the rare event she didn't have any personal experience with my question (i.e. spicy Thai curry), she was there to lend a sympathetic ear. I know all the mamas in our family have turned more than once to Nana for nursing advice.

A nursing mentor is so important for a new nursing mama. Whether it's a friend, a mother, a lactation consultant, a LLL leader, or even an online community. Nana's advice for nursing moms is find someone who has nursed their baby and ask her to share her nursing know-how!